Trauma Bond Lyrics

Losing you at first hurt me a lot, I can't deny

But losing you helped me read between the lines, between the lies

We didn't even know nothin' bout love

We was really lovin' in the bond, in the trauma bond

Trauma bond, trauma bonding traumatized

We don't know love, but we tryin

Trauma bond, trauma bond, trauma bonding

What is love to a hurt inner child

Ever since the JIT, I've been questionin' love

Mama would hug men, but she wouldn't hug us

So when I grew up, I wasn't givin' it up

No kisses, no hugs, just abuse and drugs

I couldn't offer much, just trauma and a blunt

And all this anger displacement

You don't even know why, but you still take it

Cause when you was a kid, your mama did the same shit

All the yellin' and blamin', that's why you quiet

Now

Never wanna talk now

Every time we argue, you gon' back down

Even though I'm wrong, you say I'm right now

Cause you just want the tension to quickly pipe down

And that was the icing on the reason you not around

Cause that wasn't love, that was a trauma bond

Losin' you at first hurt me a lot, I can't deny

But losin' you helped me read between the lines, between the lies

We didn't even know nothin' but love

We was really lovin' in a bond

Trauma bond, trauma bond, trauma bonding

Traumatized, we don't know love, but we tryin

Trauma bond, trauma bond, trauma bonding

What is love to a hurt inner child

Bring it back, bring it back, bring it back, uh